Chapter 18: Relationship Violence Against Men

Balbir Gurm; Glaucia Salgado; and Jennifer Marchbank

Key Messages

  • Meta-analysis of studies on relationship violence in which men are victims indicate psychological and physical violence seems to be the most prevalent form of RV experienced.
  • Barriers to seeking help include fear of disclosure (shame, denial and embarrassment, fear of not being believed, nowhere to go and fear of losing children), challenge to masculinity, commitment to relationship, diminished confidence/despondency that inhibits action and invisibility/perception of services (victim not aware of services or thought they were inappropriate).
  • Victims who seek out help may experience distress and secondary victimization when professionals and services are not prepared to provide support to this population group.
  • Access to support services among male victims of intimate partner violence is typically considerably lower than services for women.
  • Misconceptions about what it means to be a man often stand in the way of sexual abuse and other forms of abuse of males being recognized, acknowledged, and treated. Alcohol and drug abuse, family violence, suicide and social dysfunction are a few of the possible consequences.

Relationship violence is any form of physical, emotional, spiritual and financial abuse, negative social control or coercion that is suffered by anyone that has a bond or relationship with the offender. In the literature, we find words such as intimate partner violence (IPV), neglect, dating violence, family violence, battery, child neglect, child abuse, bullying, seniors or elder abuse, male violence, stalking, cyberbullying, strangulation, technology-facilitated coercive control, honour killing, female genital mutilation gang violence and workplace violence. In couples, violence can be perpetrated by women and men in opposite-sex relationships (Carney et al., 2007), within same-sex relationships (Rollè et al., 2018) and in relationships where the victim is LGBTQ2SIA+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, Two-Spirit, intersex and asexual plus)  (The Scottish Trans Alliance, 2010; Rollè et al., 2018). Relationship violence is a result of multiple impacts such as taken for granted inequalities, policies and practices that accept sexism, racism, ageism, xenophobia and homophobia. It can span the entire age spectrum. It may start in-utero and end with death. Although men are usually the perpetrators of RV, they can also be abused.  This chapter illuminates the understandings of RV against men.

Relationship Violence against Men

Relationship violence issues have typically been focused on violence committed against women and girls, particularly concerning intimate partner violence and sexual violence. As widely discussed previously, women and girls are vulnerable to violent acts with reasoning around issues related to patriarchy and imbalanced power relationships (Carter, 2015). Although this view has been conceptualized as a unilateral approach suggesting that men are the sole perpetrators of violence, and women the victims, studies assert that individuals from any gender can be victims of violence (Devries, 2013; Ferrales et al., 2016; Meyer, 2015). It is noteworthy that gender refers to socially and culturally constructed norms associated with being male or female. Sex assigned at birth does not always correspond with an individual’s gender. Violence might occur with individuals who identify themselves as male, female, and LGBTQ2SIA+ (lesbian, gay, bisexual, trans, queer, Two-Spirit, intersex, asexual) (Bradley, 2013; Todahl et al., 2009; United Nations [UN], 1996). Although power and patriarchy are most frequently used to discuss violence against females, they are also recognized as critical factors affecting any group of vulnerable individuals. The reason for the extensive use of these concepts is connected to the fact that privilege, power, and dominance intersect with social status, race, ethnicity, and religion (Sidanius & Veniegas, 2013). Intersectionality theory explains how identity, experience and positionality overlap to create oppression that underpins relationship violence (Cramer and Plummer, 2009; Meyer, 2010).

To properly assess victimization it is vital to have protocols that contain specific questions about how violence is perpetrated which would be helpful to show how intimate partner violence affects all genders. For instance, the General Survey Data (2016), used as a tool to understand differences among victims of physical violence in heterosexual relationships, shows that men experience  physical violence at a greater or equal rate as women (Lysova et al., 2019). Figure 18.1 below reports that there are more male targets (victims) in severe physical violence with sexual abuse, hitting with an object, kicking, slapping, throwing things and slapping  in heterosexual relationships. The same figure shows that being beaten/choked/knifed and being pushed/ shoved/grabbed are equally prevalent for men and women in heterosexual relationships. Although this study contradicts previous research that indicated that women were the majority of victims, it is critical to acknowledge that regardless of incidence rates, any group of people can experience relationship violence and nobody should have to suffer in silence.

Figure 18.1Victims of Physical Violence, by sex 

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Statistical analyses have their place and they reveal important information. However, researchers have to be cautious with selective bias. What is essential is that innocent people are being abused, traumatized, and need healing. Additionally, all offenders must be identified, held accountable and provided with the resources to help understand and address the behaviour. Issues related to identifying, recognizing, and providing appropriate support to male victims are observed in the graph below (Lysova et al., 2019). As studies and support services seem to be effective in reducing cases of relationship violence among women, male victims do not receive the same support. Intimate partner violence among men decreases at a slower rate suggesting important gaps in the knowledge and strategies to address violence among this population group. This slower decrease may be because men do not report and there are not many services specific to male survivors (as shown in Figure 18.2).

Figure 18.2Victims of Self-reported Spousal Violence

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In relationship violence, there are fewer studies on men as survivors and most studies address men as the perpetrators. Although though violence against men has been identified since the 1980s there is less media attention paid to men as victims than to women (Hines & Douglas, 2009). Hines & Douglas, (2010) reporting on the US note, “that best population-based surveys show that between 25% and 50% of victims of IPV (intimate partner violence)  are men” (p. 575). Analysis of the 2014 Canadian General Social Survey on Victimization in Canada found “2.9% of men and 1.7% of women reported experiencing physical and/or sexual IPV” (Lysova et al., 2019, p. 206). “The odds of men reporting that they were physically assaulted were 1.7 times that of women (X 2 = 12.7, p< .001) and the odds of men reporting that they experienced severe physical assault were 2.1 times that of women (X 2 = 9, p< .01)” (Lysova et al., 2019, p.208 ).  “Men were more like to report being slapped, kicked, bit, hit, threatened with battery, or that something dangerous was thrown at them” but there was no significant difference in experiencing violence with the current heterosexual partner between men (42%) and women (39%) (Lyvosa et al., 2019, p.208). Police reported rates are contrary to this data, stating 79% of the cases are IPV against women (Burczycka & Conroy, 2018). 

Intimate partner violence (IPV) perpetrated by women against a male partner is a topic of intense debate. Some theorists seem resistant to accept the fact that women can also be offenders of intimate partner violence, arguing that when women perpetrate violence, it is to act in self-defence (Houry et al., 2008; Kernsmith, 2005; Muftic et al., 2007). In this view, researchers turn once again to the view that “social power structures are reflected in interpersonal relationships” and men, as the socially dominant gender, are the ones who misuse this power by trying to oppress and become dominant (Hines et al., 2007, p.63). As the notion of power and dominance exerted by some male individuals towards a female partner is mentioned in many studies of IPV, this theory is not effective in explaining the complexity of intimate relationships and the dynamics that involve relationship violence perpetrated among any group of people. With a diverse population and types of relationships, some researchers have tried to propose theories that might help the understanding of RV. For instance, Johnson (2005, 2010) suggests that intimate partner violence is related to three main situations:

  • One of the partners (male or female) feels the desire to take control over their partner
  • Resistance to partner’s attempts of control
  • Stressful daily life situations leading to violent behaviours

Johnson (2010) categorizes these circumstances as intimate terrorism, situational couple violence, mutual violent control and violent resistance

  • Intimate terrorism denotes a partner’s attempts to control with the intention to dominate by employing negative coercive behaviours like emotional abuse (e.g., isolation, threats, humiliation) physical and sexual abuse against the partner.
  • Situational couple violence refers to episodes of violence that occur due to conflict triggered by situations of everyday stress or discussions that might escalate to violence (Johnson & Leone 2008, p. 6).
  • Lien & Lorentzen (2019) propose that mutual violent control and violent resistance denote two different patterns that can follow intimate terrorism and situational couple violence. While in mutual violent control, both partners are violent and attempt to exert control over each other, violent resistance refers to physical violence as a self-defence act that results from experiencing intimate terrorism.

Johnson’s typology was initially connected to the notion that women experience IPV more frequently than men. Although different ways of counting IPV lead to different statistics on sex and victimhood (see chapter 5 for discussion of CTS) other studies show that Johnson’s typology can be helpful when analyzing IPV among males (Hines & Saudino, 2003).

Lysova, Dim & Dutton (2019) analysis of a Canadian National Survey of Victimology found that of those reporting victimization 22% of male victims and 19% of female victims of IPV reported that they had experienced severe physical violence along with high controlling behaviours (Lysova et al. 2019). This survey found that of those reporting violence 50% were men but Lysova et al. (2019) surmise that as physical violence against men by women can be less injurious than vice versa that male victimology, outside of such surveys, is less visible as it results in fewer hospital visits or police reports. Even when the victimization of males is reported the outcomes may not recognize the violence. In Scotland, in ‘2000 those who perpetrated domestic abuse against men were slightly less likely to have had their acts deemed criminal by the Scottish Police than those who perpetrated domestic abuse against women’ Gadd et al., 2002, p.vi). In addition, those who perpetrated IPV against men were also a little less likely to be referred to the courts (Gadd et al., 2002).

In a report conducted for the Scottish Executive David Gadd et al. (2002) attempted to explain the discrepancies between the number of men who self-reported being survivors in the Scottish Crime Survey in 2000 with the considerably smaller number of reports men made to the Scottish police. Some of the discrepancies were that a number of men completing the survey misread or misunderstood ‘domestic violence’ (the term used in this report) and reported on physical violence from other sources. However, the authors also concluded that:

Relative to female victims of domestic abuse, male victims, in general, were less likely to have been repeated victims of assault, to have been seriously injured, and to report feeling fearful in their own homes. These factors, coupled with the embarrassment many male victims felt, helped explain the infrequency with which male victims of domestic abuse came to the attention of the Scottish Police. Some of the male victims of domestic abuse identified in the Scottish Crime Survey 2000 were also assailants and therefore did not wish to draw themselves to the attention of the police. (Gadd, et al. 2002, p.vi)

These factors, further invisibalize the existence of male survivors of IPV.

Gadd et al. (2002) also conducted in-depth qualitative interviews with 22 men who did report being male survivors of IPV,  which they divided into four categories:

  • Primary instigators – they began the violence – n=1
  • Equal combatants – those who reported being equally responsible – n=4
  • Retaliators – those who used violence back but did not instigate it – n=8
  • Non-retaliatory victims – n=9

Even amongst the nine non-retaliatory victims, not all saw their situation as being domestic violence, for example:

Vince’s ex-girlfriend had smashed a glass into his wrist and had punched him. In hindsight, Vince considered these incidents ‘funny’, although he did not see them this way at the time. Likewise, Zac belittled the actions of the three partners he claimed had abused him. Zac described the behaviour of these three women as ‘amusing’.. (Gadd et al., 2002, p.42)

It may be that Zac’s and Vince’s responses stem from their understanding of their own masculinity, to see violent acts as ‘funny’ or ‘amusing’ is an attempt to diminish the severity, the threat and the violence of these actions. To show that as men they are capable of handling such incidences. If this is the case, we also have to factor in men’s notion of proper masculine behaviour (that includes being in control, of being strong, of being social) when explaining why some men, like some women, do not perceive their victimhood as part of a systemic system of violence. Gadd et al. (2002: pvii) note:

the qualitative research upon which this report is based shows that domestic abuse against men can take life-threatening forms and can have lasting effects. Some of the male victims interviewed experienced a range of abuses from their partners. This abuse took emotional, financial, and physical forms. However, many of the male victims in our sample described their partners’ abuses as relatively rare and inconsequential in the longer term. Few men cited abuse as reasons for having left their partners. Abuse frequently occurred when relationships were in crisis or ‘breaking up’, and/or when access to children had to be negotiated between partners who were living apart.

A Norwegian study (Lien & Lorentzen, 2019) provides some more information on men as victims. Lien & Lorentzen conducted in-depth qualitative interviews with 28 men recruited, primarily, from men accessing family protection services, attending crisis centres and from adult survivors of child sexual abuse and incest. In total, there were 18 interviews with men who had not suffered child sexual abuse. Of these 18, 1 grew up in a violent home but had not suffered IPV; 3 reported IPV from their male partners and the remainder are survivors of IPV from female partners. Although this is a small study it is useful as it provides information on the experiences and perspectives of men who have survived IPV. The study included Norwegian and foreign-born men. Of the Norwegian men, they tended to be young with some post-secondary education (i.e., about three years of university-level education) but the foreign-born men were not so educated.

Lien & Lorentzen (2019) found that their respondents reported being subjected to systemic harassment and humiliation by their female partners, which are characteristics of psychological dominance. These male survivors reported withdrawing themselves from their usual social circles, become isolated, and lonely (Lien & Lorentzen, 2019). The men in this study affirmed that they could handle the violence, could resolve the problem and denied that their circumstances are part of systemic violence (Lien & Lorentzen, 2019, p.79) matching the attitudes of Zac and Vince detailed above.

So, it can be seen that even when aggression occurs to men from their intimate partners they do not perceive it as something that deserves to be reported to the police. In reported cases, men rarely describe intimate partner violence as an act that invokes fear and control, even when there is an explicit mention of aggressive behaviours. Furthermore, police reports show that women who do aggress are more likely to use a weapon against the intimate male partner (Dim, 2017; Hester, 2012).

Incidence Rates

There are debates regarding variations in incidence rates, as shown by Gadd et al. (2002). These variations can be due to differences in what is being counted and, as shown above, can also be from inaccurate reporting. However, US figures show that 1 in 4 women and 1 in 9 men have experienced intimate partner violence (Centers for Disease Control and Prevention [CDC], 2017) and these are consistent with surveys from other Western societies. In Canada, national surveys show that men represent 20% of IPV survivors (Statistics Canada, 2011). However, some studies contradict these estimates. Dim (2017) suggests that intimate partner violence is experienced at similar rates by females and males, arguing that the difference lies in the forms of violence and not in the number of cases. For instance, sexual violence in cases of IPV appears to affect more women and girls, while physical violence, in its many forms, appears to be higher amongst men. Similarly, a meta-analysis shows that in incidents with women as the offender, psychological and physical violence seems to be the most prevalent forms of IPV (Williams et al., 2008). Physical assault (e.g., pushing, slapping, punching, and using a weapon to cause severe harm) represents 87% of IPV against males in Canada (Statistics Canada, 2018). This high figure may also be due to the fact, as discussed above, less violent incidences of IPV may not be viewed as violence by male survivors.

Barriers to Seeking Help

Although intimate partner violence is more prevalent and severe for women, it is also perpetrated against men. Men may suffer domestic violence from heterosexual relationships, same-sex relationships, former partners or other family members. A systematic review was conducted on help-seeking experiences of male survivors of domestic violence by Huntley et al., (2019). They described barriers faced by males in seeking help and expertise of services. Trying to seek and receive help among male IPV victims is challenging, and those who exhibit negative psychological symptoms experience difficulty finding support services (Powney, 2019). Also, they experience distressing and secondary victimization as professionals and services are not prepared to provide support to this population group (Hines & Douglas, 2014; Tsui, 2014).

Barriers to Seeking Help

Fear of disclosure shame, denial and embarrassment, fear of not being believed, nowhere to go and fear of losing children

Challenge to masculinitystigma, fear of not being believed

Commitment to relationshipwant to stay in the relationship but want abuse to stop

Diminished confidence/despondency – decreased confidence and depression/Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, reported abuse on open-ended surveys but did not disclose to anyone

Invisibility/perception of servicesnot aware of services or thought they were inappropriate

(Hines & Douglas, 2014)

Male Survivor Experience (Huntley et al., 2019)

Initial contact occurred following a crisis when a sense of urgency to report occurred and family members were generally viewed as supports.

Confidentiality or private space especially in healthcare settings is needed, and clergy are seen as those who may keep privacy by some

Appropriate professional approach- more comfortable with a consistent female professional

Inappropriate professional approaches- lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT)  survivors stated that service was heterosexual focused and professionals lacked understanding, and heterosexual men experienced both negative and positive experiences from the police.

The lack of services for male victims, or a lack of knowledge about them, are further barriers to male survivors seeking assistance. Although Gadd et al, (2002, p. vii) concluded that in Scotland no one, survivors or service providers, was making demands for male-specific services, nor even for shelters for men fleeing abuse, they also noted that “..there is some evidence to indicate that abused men are not making full use of the pre-existing support services available to them, perhaps suggesting that some service providers need to publicize their remit more widely’. This may also be because our society tends to still think of women as the victims and so abused men may not feel that they can access services which they perceive as primarily for women. See services available to men at the end of the chapter.
Male survivors have similar challenges as females. They under report and do not seek help because they feel embarrassed that society will pressure them. They differ in that their embarrassment is from the societal belief that they will be seen to be less than and seen as not able to handle women. This internalization of hyper-masculinity as a norm may be the cause of their embarrassment and underreporting. They also have chronic conditions similar to female survivors. Even though outcomes of intimate partner violence are similar between the gender groups, males are at a great disadvantage in relation to the use of formal support services. Figure 18.3 compares use of formal services by gender and it is clear that men access every service at a lower rate than women. Access to support services among men victims of intimate partner violence is, in some cases, over 50% lower compared to women. Also, there are significant differences among family members and friends who seem to be more supportive of women than men victims (Lysova et al., 2019). Click here to listen to survivor stories of abuse.
Figure 18.3Formal Supports used by Victims of Self-report Physical Violence
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Sexual Violence

Although a higher number of females experience sexual violence, this is not to affirm that sexual violence affects women only, but it indicates a greater vulnerability of women to sexual assault and more cases reported to the criminal justice system (Dim, 2017; Statistics Canada, 2018). A US national-based study on IPV shows that 24.8% or 27.6 million males in the US have experienced some form of contact sexual violence, including rape, being made to engage in intercourse with someone else, sexual coercion, and unwanted sexual contact (CDC, 2015). 
Yet sexual violence against men, by abusers of any gender, is under-discussed in our society, and when it is it is often with a sense of ridicule or disbelief for male rape is still regarded as taboo (Marchbank & Letherby, 2014). It is only relatively recently that sexual assault of (adult) males became recognized as a crime, for example, the necessary legislative changes did not happen in England and Wales until 1994 (Marchbank & Letherby, 2014). When sexual violence against males is recognized it is often in the context of war. Sexual violence in this context often includes rape and genital mutilation that occur concomitant to each other in the concentration camps (Lewis, 2009; Solangon & Pater, 2012). When these forms of crime are reported, they are described as “torture or degrading treatment” rather than rape, creating a gap in the justice system, lack of protection and intervention (Carpenter, 2006 p. 95; Lewis, 2010). “Constructions of masculinity are very present in such behaviours:.. the rapist takes a position of power… to torture, attack and brutalize the victims whom the rapist, or the policy. deems as inferior…The subjugation of the enemy as ‘feminine’ is central to masculinity the perpetrator conceives as superior” (Marchbank & Letherby, 2014, p. 307). A similar relationship between dominance and masculinity can be involved in the rape of men in prisons by other men who identify as heterosexual.
Don Wright, former executive director of the BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse, states that men are also victims of sexual abuse. BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse website has several articles by Don Wright that provide valuable information. Sexual abuse, for its most part, is greatly misunderstood, and it is generally believed that it involves an overt act, an unwilling party, and to be carried out by a male against a female. Although all of this is often true, it is only part of the picture. To recognize the real scope of sexual abuse and to address the trauma experienced by survivors, as well as the impact on society, it is essential to adhere to a broader definition of sexual abuse and a more global view of whom the offenders and survivors are in current days. 
Misconceptions about what it means to be a man often stand in the way of sexual abuse of males being recognized, acknowledged, and treated. One myth is that males are always in control of their sexual experiences. This is not true for young boys, but it may also not be accurate for an adult male. Although studies indicate that more girls experience sexual abuse than boys, the disclosure rate among boys is lower than among girls. Riccardi (2010) suggests that although males can also be victims of rape, little consideration is given to this phenomenon and its consequences. Another misconception is that men do not experience the degree of emotional pain associated with sexual abuse, as do women – and further, if a man does have emotional pain, he can handle it alone. Alcohol and drug abuse, family violence, suicide, and social dysfunction are a few of the possible results of sexual abuse of males when it is not acknowledged and treated. This is not “handling” the pain (British Columbia Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse, n.d.).

We do have some basic facts about men as victims:

  • Rape of men more commonly committed by heterosexual men (McMullen, 1990)
  • Sexual orientation of victims evenly distributed
  • 66% of gang assaults on men also perpetrated by heterosexual men (Hodge & Canter, 1998)
  • Female perpetrators involved in 40% of sexual assaults on males (Coxell et al., 2000)
Government estimates for the UK report that in 2010-2014 there were 78,000 rape victims, of whom 9,000 were men with 1,250 male rapes reported in 2011-12 alone (Badenoch, 2015) and that of the estimated 679,051  sexual assaults and rapes of males in 2010-2014 – 654,568 not reported to the police (Badenoch, 2015).
Men, like other victims of sexual assault, also suffer psychological effects. Although we have few studies to cite we can assume that some common features to women’s responses exist and start from there. Hodge & Canter’s (1998)  included 119 cases of men who had survived sexual assault. Sixty percent of these men (irrespective of sexuality) reported freezing and not fighting back; reported experiencing intense fear of death or harm – shock, numbness, disbelief and helplessness.
It seems that male survivors of sexual assault harbour fears of being perceived as being homosexual or may fear that they are if they became aroused during the attack. Stephanie Chester’s (1998) study of men who had survived rape shows that “…in some cases of heterosexual men do not receive support when they confide in their spouse – instead they find themselves being accused of experimenting with homosexuality” (Chester, 1998 in Marchbank & Letherby, 2014, p. 304). Chester (1998, in Marchbank & Letherby, 2014) also found that other women left the relationship as they did not wish to remain with a man who they felt was now too emotionally vulnerable.

Male survivors of sexual assault are also more likely (than women) to be victims of greater physical trauma, held in captivity for longer and be raped by multiple assailants, sometimes more than once (Groth, 1980). Rapists of men also tend to use weapons more than those who rape women (Donaldson, 1990) possibly due to the fact that the perpetrator and victim may be closer in physical strength than a man raping a woman or child. As already mentioned there are few services for male sexual assault survivors than for women and this, in combination with ideas around appropriate masculinity, leads to men being more likely to cope through denial and control – which makes them more prone to future psychiatric problems and further reduces help-seeking behaviours (Mezey, 1987).

Sexuality Abuse is a term that has come into more common use, and it mainly describes any behaviour that undermines the integrity of the individual’s sexual identity or sexual safety. Sexuality abuse includes not only actions that are traditionally viewed as sexual abuse (i.e. criminal acts) but also covert sexual actions, not often recognized either by the courts or by the general population. Some examples are derogatory comments of a sexual nature, leering looks, age-inappropriate exposure to sexual information or imagery, or the lack of appropriate information. Although these and other examples may not result in criminal charges, nor be intentional, they may nevertheless result in long-term disturbance for the victim. 

Victims and offenders of sexual abuse are increasingly seen as including a broader range of individuals. While it was once believed that a larger percentage of survivors are female than are male, recent studies indicate that the numbers are not as disparate as previously assumed. Sexual abuse of males of all ages is not rare. Statistics may be misleading if taken at face value: statements such as “…the majority of victims are female…” minimize the extent of victimization of males, or “…offenders are predominantly male…” may result in one overlooking female offenders.

Besides intimate partner violence, males experience other forms of relationship violence. Statistics Canada (2011) indicates that men are more vulnerable to violence perpetrated by friends and acquaintances (73,111 number of cases), and casual acquaintances (50,544 number of cases). “Physical assault was more common among male victims (87% versus 74% of female victims)… It was almost twice as common for weapons to be present in intimate partner violence involving male victims as when the victim was female (23% versus 12%), a finding consistent for both spousal and dating violence” (Statistics Canada, 2018). When men are victims of p[hysical violence it is often more severe than for women (though not for transwomen) and men are more likely than women to be victims of the most serious violent acts such as homicide (WHO, 2017).

IPV in Gangs

Gangs are critical social groups in which relationships violence occurs between gang members. Gangs have generally been classified as a group of people that engages, either individually or collectively, in illegal and non-political acts of violence. Although there are many arguments to better elaborate and expand this definition, researchers argue that there is a lack of adequate sociological analysis and low consensus on how to improve the meaning of gangs (Jingfors et al., 2015). The World Health Organization classifies gangs as an act of collective violence which refers to “the instrumental use of violence by people who identify themselves as members of a group—whether this group is transitory or has a more permanent identity—against another group or set of individuals, to achieve the economic or social objective” (WHO, 2002). Contrary to many countries in which gangs are associated with poverty and marginalization, gang groups in Canada are allied to affluence and status (Jingfors et al., 2015). The Canadian Criminal Code (section 467.1) defines gangs as:

an organized group of three or more, that as one of its main purposes or main activities is the facilitation or commission of one or more serious offences, that, if committed, would likely result in the direct or indirect receipt of a material benefit, including a financial benefit, by the group or by anyone of the people who constitute the group and excluding cases of a single offence (Canadian Criminal Code R.S.C., 1985, c. C-46).

In British Columbia, gangs are involved in illegal activities like drug trafficking, firearms sales, extortion and the sex trade. These activities are all done with the intention to make a profit, and gang leaders have to find ways to launder their profits. These strategies often “present opportunities” to those who want to get involved with gang groups. The need to make a profit leads to territorial disputes among different gang groups that frequently lead to extreme acts of violence (Dandurand et al., 2019). Gangs often target male and female youth who get involved in the circles of violence in order to earn money and get recognition from gang members. Despite the presence of law enforcement bodies targeting gangs’ activities gangs are difficult to suppress and helping young people extricate themselves from gangs is difficult.  Historically, street gangs and business-oriented gangs have been organized along with a shared identity within specific neighbourhoods and provide a sense of belonging for their members. Therefore, finding ways to address this issue and prevent involvement should include a multifactorial approach, one that considers ethnicity and culture (McConnell, 2015).

Although gang-related homicides in Canada are relatively low compared to the US, gangs impact many communities and families, especially in western regions of Canada like British Columbia (BC). Young individuals are at the highest risk of becoming involved with gangs. Wortley & Tanner (2004) study shows the following significant risk factors.

      • Low attachment to the community
      • Over-reliance on anti-social peers
      • Poor parental relationship
      • Alcohol and drug abuse
      • Poor educational or employment potential
      • A need for recognition and belonging

Even though gang activities have been linked to sexual exploitation of girls, those who are often targeted are boys and young males. Boyce and Cotter (2013) suggest that youth gang members are connected to a great number of criminal behaviours like drug trafficking, frauds, assaults with weapons and homicides.

Table 18.4 – Programs in Canada

Agency Project Summary
BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse BC Society for Male Survivor of Sexual Abuse This is the only organization in British Columbia that focuses on male survivors. The British Columbia Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse (BCSMSSA) is a non-profit society established to provide therapeutic services for males who have been sexually abused at some time in their lives. They offer individual and group therapy to men who had experienced sexual abuse.
Moving Forward Family Services Counselling Services This initiative was started by NEVR member Gary Thandi. They provide low barriers counselling support for survivors and families in the Vancouver Lower Mainland. Their head office is in Surry.
Canadian Centre for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Healing, education, advocacy and research centre.
It has a list of treatment centres for male survivors of sexual abuse across Canada and links to resources such as books and podcasts. They are building a centre in Calgary, Alberta.
Public Safety Canada Crime Prevention through the Strengthening of Youth, Families and the Community Project This initiative was started in 2014 in response to high incidence rates of violence among youth in Prince George, Canada. The project uses the Strengthening Families framework that aims to enhance parents’ and child communication and relationships, reduce alcohol and drug use among youth, and teach social skills.
National Gang Center Comprehensive Homicide Initiative This initiative engages legal and police forces to investigate and enforce the law in areas of high homicide incidence in California, US. The initiative involves the apprehension of guns and drugs and the incarceration of criminals. The program uses the OJJDP Comprehensive Gang Model as a tool to understand risk factors, community vulnerability and support to promote safety.
Caring Dads Caring Dads Initiative Caring Dads is focused to support change practices to better include fathers in efforts to enhance the safety and well-being of their children.

Table 18.5 – Programs outside Canada

Agency Project Summary
After Silence Online chat group
It is an online support group for survivors with resources for male survivors
RAINN Sexual Assault of Men and Boys
It is an online support group for male survivors of sexual assault with resources.
ManKind Initiative Males Victims of Domestic Abuse This initiative serves men and their family members and friends who would like to find information for someone else. As an additional resource, MVDA provides training to police officers, hospital staff, local council, counsellors, and welfare community groups.
Abused Men in Scotland Abused Men in Scotland The initiative provides helpline support and face to face meetings during weekdays from 9 am to 4 pm to all UK areas.

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